Intuition, sensation, connection

I am a qualified massage therapist from the prestigious London School of Massage. The nature of my work is based on compassion and intuition, helping you to become more at peace and free.

I specialise in helping bi, trans or queer men move beyond the confusing messages and negative conditioning related to sexuality, helping them to reconnect to themselves and to their bodies.

The intention is to create a space where you feel totally accepted, whilst respecting your own boundaries and pace without the limiting or shaming message that genitals need to be dissociated or excluded.

At times this can feel incredibly relaxing, and at others, more stimulating, as dormant feelings and parts of the body become awakened.

Arousal is welcomed if it happens with respect to our body’s inherent natural response, however I am not providing an erotic massage service. The primary intention is acceptance and honouring your body as it is, to experience relaxation, expansion, depth and well-being.

The power of touch

The tender touch of others is now known to boost the immune system, lower blood pressure, decrease the levels of stress hormones such as cortisol, and trigger the release of dopamine and serotonin in your brain, which can relax you and create a sense of inner peace.

As men, we can sometimes feel not in tune with our bodies, or we can experience high levels of stress which impact our wellbeing. The most effective remedy I have found is the power of touch.

A Co-created experience

No two experiences are alike.

Before we begin, your needs are discussed and we both agree the best treatment for you.

At the beginning of your session, we do some breath work together to settle the mind and body.

I check in with you throughout the session, enabling a connection between us which can completely transform your experience.

Remedies

I use this soothing massage oil. It is a blend of revitalising essential oils in a skin-softening, vegetable-oil base - to nourish your body and mind. The conditioning base of almond, avocado and jojoba oils is fragranced with geranium, palmarosa and cypress and relaxing lavender and bergamot to help you relax and unwind.

• For all skin types

• Promotes relaxation and a deep sense of wellbeing

• Helps prevent moisture loss

Paul 45 - London

“Damien has that rare quality of being beautiful on the inside as well as the outside - His patience and generosity of attention during your time with him leaves you feeling truly connected both emotionally and physically - I would not hesitate to recommend him to anyone who is looking for a holistic massage experience”

June 2022

David 64 - Northampton

“What Damien is offering is indeed a complete WELLBEING EXPERIENCE. It is a massage, but the term "massage" does not begin to cover it.

I recommend this experience wholeheartedly. Whether you know Damien or not, you will find it wonderful and very special.”

April 2022

Edward 42 - London

"I came to Damien with issues of not liking my body and feeling anxious about intimacy, and with a tendency to dissociate during intimate moments with partners. Damien made me feel safe and held, and his hands worked like magic to make me feel so much more at peace, and I experienced sensations in my body that I never thought possible. Now I crave intimacy rather than fearing it, and have learned to feel fully present when being touched"

January 2022

David 74 - London

I was very impressed with certain aspects of Damien’s approach, including an exercise of breathing in sync which was amazing! What Damien provided – aside from releasing a lot of the tension in my back and shoulders – was a kind of intuitive response to my body that had the experience be so comforting and relaxing.

The experience of my massage with Damien was wonderful. He is attentive, considerate and truly ‘tuned in’ to the very personal experience that a healing massage can bring. No hesitation whatsoever in recommending him for a massage with a personal touch!

February 2022